Spill about your L-O-V-E

Hi all! I saw this wonderful little linkup from April at A.Liz Adventures and knew I had to do it especially since it is about love. I know it's probably a little late to do this link up since she started it last Wednesday, but hey, I just now came across it, and I cannot help myself. Alrighty, here we go...

{1} Describe your dating life prior to finding your boyfriend. 

I was never the girl that had boyfriend after boyfriend like all my friends had. I had little elementary school boyfriends with the cute little letter writing back and forth, but you know how that is. I know most girls have their first boyfriend and first kiss when they are in middle school so it seems, but not me. I didn't have my first serious boyfriend until high school. This relationship was intense at first, but then it just became a back and forth, lets break up, lets get back together kind of thing for about two years. I guess a lot of high school relationships end up like that.  Eventually I got sick of everything and had to let go of it all. Give myself a clean slate from dating for a while. About a year after that relationship, I met my future husband. So much for a having a real break from dating! Although I was scared of dating, I took the biggest risk of my life on Jarrett and it was the best thing I have ever done!





{2} Describe your boyfriend in one word. How would he describe you in one word?



My word to describe Jarrett: Calm. Jarrett is the most calm, cool and collective person I have ever met. As you all know, I am a worry wart x1000, so having a husband like him helps out a lot!

 

His word for me: So, I asked Jarrett this question and he couldn't think of a word. Ha typical for my husband. I will go ahead and think of one for him since his brain is on vacation. Faith. I believe that he would say that I always have faith no matter what is happening in my life. 

{3} You had a really silly fight. Embarrassing silly. What was it about?

Well we, like many couples, have had many little tiffs here and there. Most of them I can't even remember anymore, so I guess that means that weren't that big of a deal. I'll just go with the one last night at the in laws. So I stated in my weekend things post that Leo had taken my pork chop off my plate last night at dinner. Well I didn't tell you just how angry I was when that happened. I was angry at Leo, but I was more so angry with Jarrett because he keeps giving him scraps at dinner and therefore Leo is not learning food manners. I feel that there is nothing wrong with scraps every once in a while, but my husband has that whole "we can't let the leftovers go to waste" thing going on so he just gives Leo all of his scraps every night at dinner. When Leo took that food off my plate, it made me realize that he thinks he can take what he wants because he's so use to eating scraps. I lost it and Jarrett and I started arguing during dinner in front of my in laws. I know it's normal to argue especially when it involves animals and kids and I know I should have waited to address it when we got home instead of addressing it right at dinner, but I just got so angry! Once I calmed down, everything was okay and I felt better about the whole thing. He said he wouldn't give him scraps as much anymore and that we'd work on training him better and disciplining him better in the future.  

{4} In three sentences (and only three!), describe where you both hope to be in 5 years.

-I hope to see me gain a career and Jarrett go up even further with his career in the Air Force 

-I hope to obtain my Master's degree and Jarrett finish his Bachelor's degree and go for his Master's as well

-I hope for us to start a family and to have at least two kids within the next five years 

Yeah, we want to do a lot, but I believe we can do it all.

 

{5} Tell us something about your boyfriend we wouldn't know from reading your blog.

Oh my I could talk about Jarrett all say long on here. Something you may not know about him is that he is a very reserved person and does not like to be bothered or annoyed. He likes to keep to himself for the most part, but ever since he met me, he has opened up a little bit more. It's not that he is a shy person, it's just that he doesn't like to be bothered by people bugging him all the time. I have kind of become the same way since meeting him. We like our quiet time together with no interruptions, but there always seems to be some kind of interruption. That's just how he is and how we are. 

{6} What's one thing you never thought you'd do in front of your boyfriend, but you did?

Hahaha I love this question because there are many things that I do in front of him that I NEVER thought I would do in front of a man...period. I'm warning you all, it's a bit funny and crazy, but it's my blog and I actually don't mind sharing it! I cannot name just one thing. I have peed in front of him, passed gas next to him and on him, picked pimples in front of him and picked his pimples, pulled his in grown hairs out, belched really loud, peed in my pants in front of him because he made me laugh that hard, picked my nose in front of him, sang horribly in front of him, danced crazy in front of him, ate like I have never eaten before in front of while getting more food on the table than in my mouth and I could go on and on, but I've already said enough crude things that I've done, haha! I think we are human and we do these things even by ourselves, but when you can find someone that loves you and adores you despite all your flaws and crude behaviors, that's something to be grateful for.